“When we were sisters”, interview with director and actress Lisa Brühlmann

At this year’s Alice nella Città, we speak with Lisa Brühlmann, the director, screenwriter, and actress behind the film “When We Were Sisters”. Set in the nostalgic 90s, the movie explores the complex dynamics of a patchwork family on their first vacation together. “It’s a story about friendship and how sometimes, friendship can be more important than family,” Lisa shared during our conversation.

A Love Letter to Friendship and Resilience

When asked about the inspiration behind her film, Lisa Brühlmann emphasized the significance of resilience and the bonds we share with our friends. “It’s almost a love letter to my friends,” she explained. This sentiment resonates deeply within the film, highlighting how pivotal friendships can be during our formative years.

Understanding Fragility in Characters

In discussing the characters, Lisa noted the importance of portraying each individual’s fragility. “No one is the bad one,” she stated. “Every character has their own drama.” She plays Monica, the mother, whose struggles and imperfections make her relatable. “Being a mother myself, I understand how hard it is to meet high standards of what makes a good mom,” she reflected.

The Symbolism of Prison and Freedom

A recurring motif in the film is the concept of prison, both physical and emotional. Lisa Brühlmann explained, “Valenska is in the prison of the reality that the mother built.” The film beautifully portrays how the characters grapple with guilt and expectations, inviting the audience to empathize with their journeys.

Navigating Between Directing and Acting

As both director and actress, Lisa Brühlmann shared the challenges of embodying a troubled character while managing the film’s vision. “It was exhausting to get into Monica’s mindset,” she admitted, “but it was a relief to switch back to being the director.” This dual perspective adds depth to her performance, making her portrayal of Monica both authentic and poignant.

Reflecting on the 90s Experience

Set in 1996, “When We Were Sisters” captures the essence of a time before smartphones and social media. Lisa Brühlmann expressed that the isolation of the 90s made the characters’ emotional journeys feel more profound. “In a toxic relationship, you feel more isolated,” she noted, highlighting the contrast between past and present dynamics.

A Message for Young Audiences

Ultimately, Lisa Brühlmann hopes viewers will take away a sense of connection and understanding from her film. “I hope you feel the power of friendship, resilience, and love,” she concluded. “Sometimes, friendship can be stronger than family.”

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